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Regarding Dreamweaver


A lot of folks are missing the guy right now, and as we are a community, you all have questions. Hopefully this post will help answer those questions, as we are all a family and you have a right to know. Dream has been here a long time now. He is a beloved member of this community, but it's no secret that he had issues. Over the past year, his threats of suicide grew more and more frequent. This upset folks naturally. More folks than I can count, reached out to him, offered help and advice, and to my knowledge (and from what I hear), were mostly ignored. There is a small subset of folks however, who are affected differently by his statements. These folks are depressed, and suicidal themselves, and Dream's posts have upset those folks and in one case, almost acted as a push. I'm sorry, but as I said to someone else tonight, one man's pain, cannot become everyone's. Especially if it holds the potential to possibly cause someone else harm. So in regards to his suspension, that's the gist of it. His posts were scary and harmful to not only himself, but others as well. Here's the part I can't stress enough though: no one is mad at Dream. We all just want him to get help or talk to someone. His suspension would be over right now, if he just answered an email. Call it tough love, but it is love driving our actions. It's not just love for Dream though, it's love and worry for all of you. I truly believe his actions and statements were hurting the whole community, and certain people very deeply. I'm sorry, but that's not ok. I can't stress enough that this decision has been mulled over for a long time. Months upon months. Discussion after discussion. The entire community team and Papa Niero himself. Dream wil always be welcome here, and we are so grateful for everything he does. Dream if you're by any chance reading this, please respond to one of the emails you've been sent recently. We all just want to help, and for you to be well. At the very least, set aside this need to broadcast it so openly, and possibly hurt or set off others. There are plenty of ways to express your feelings less openly... Just fucking talk to us man. Please.

This post is made up from own words. Please understand this a statement from me as a CM. Other CM's may see events differently, or not agree. I don't speak for everyone, but we did agree a statement should be made.

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About PhilKenSebbenone of us since 9:50 PM on 04.21.2009

Formerly known as Miguel Martinez. A total piece of shit, and burning in hell now. He was almost 38 and old, and one of your former Community Managers. He will never be Andy Dixon, but thankfully he will never be Wes either. He probably hates you as well (He's lying about that). He loves the cock though. He used to run The Low(er) Tier, he podcasted (and was on PStoid, led by dudes in pants) and got into development and then fell out of it. He says he enjoys nothing (his fat ass loves tacos though), but his known interests (besides games) are: reading, cooking, dying, hiking, playing with his kids, yelling at old(er) people, collecting various urine samples, stalking Smurfee, bad MSPaint work, thinking about working out, itching his bare butthole and seeing how long he can go without smelling his finger and Batman. He loves old school cars (Chevy), football (Packers & Niners) and of course: Vidya Gamze! You can see him all over the net with the same username, but mainly over at The Takeout.

His favorite games as a wee lass were: SMB3, Gunstar Heroes, Commander Keen, Blake Stone, Doom/Quake, Excitebike, Anything from Sierra/Lucasarts and MK. Now days he barely has times for games. Keen on TBS and Roguelikes still though (Spelunky ftw!). The replayability makes his dick hard. He also is known to be playing FPS online and headshotting your ass. He's always down to game with anyone, so feel free to hit him up on whatever you see I'm on. He's been on Dtoid quite awhile now (almost 10+ years) and has been involved in numerous off the radar things like contests, recaps, Community Managing, fucking dogs and spreading his AIDS. You could find him lurking mainly in the forums (fucking RIP), or on Communitoid, but yeah. Now he's a simple qpost whore. He also checks for spam and spreads his love here and there in cblogs and the fp. He loves you sick bastards. In a sexy non-sexual way. Mainly sexual. You ever need help, or an ear to vent to, DM him.

He is also on that thar Tweetarr @MikeMcPhil. Feel free to hit him up, He is always down to chat or lend an ear to someone in need. Or he'll send you some horrific or weird memes. Your choice.

Him Roberto Planktonfied:

Him Turvey-fied:

A fucking Xeno:

His career interview by Nihil

His Community Interview

Phil on Communitoid

Some Low(er) Tier Podcasts

Fapcasts can be found here

Twitch.tv Profile

His theme from the amazing Alphadeus:

Xbox LIVE:PhilK3nS3bb3n
PSN ID:MickGuerrera
Steam ID:hillbillysk8


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